Tuesday, June 29, 2010

A Father Beaten, Trying to Sell Baby!!!!


Last week a couple was arrested in California for trying to sell their 8-month-old baby girl for $25 in a Walmart parking lot.

The couple, Patrick Alan Fousek, 38, and Samantha Tomasini, 20, was jailed and charged with child endangerment as well as possession of a controlled substance and a methamphetamine pipe. While in jail, the other inmates learned what Fousek did and brutally beat him, leaving the "father" with cracked ribs and facial injuries.

I'm sure there are a lot of people who think he got what he deserved for his appalling crime, but mostly I wish he'd gotten away with it.

There's a part of me that wishes some loving couple had forked over the cash and taken that baby far away from what is clearly a very troubled life. Some miracle that would seemingly drop out of the sky for a couple who had been battling infertility; or that someone who had been unsuccessfully trying to adopt stepped out for milk and came home with a baby for which she has been desperately yearning. Someone who would take the baby away with no record of the trauma into which she was innocently born.

Because now what for that baby? Will she be sent into a system of foster care? Will they give the parents another chance to be parents after rehab or prison time? How will this awful legacy haunt and affect the baby girl for the rest of her life?

If only someone would have just taken her away from it all with loving arms ...

I know there are better, safer methods and a "system" to deal with unwanted children, but oh how I wish there didn't have to be. Adoption is a wonderful, beautiful option, but I think it's often too "big" for people in such a desperate place to consider, whereas making a few quick bucks in the parking lot of your local discount retailer seems like an easy option.

We've asked before if parents should be allowed to sell their babies. And while I understand the dangers of letting that happen with no regulation, there's a part of me that wishes any parent who even thinks of selling their baby would be allowed to do so immediately. Because in most cases, I'm sure the children would be better off.

Do you think people should be able to sell their children?

20 comments:

皇銘 said...

成熟,就是有能力適應生活中的模糊。.................................................................

戴昀德 said...

Unable to give you a heart. so have a reply to push up your post.
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RalphBrau采男 said...

quite touching~~~thx for sharing..................................................................

佩璇佩璇 said...

一時的錯誤不算什麼,錯而不改才是一生中永遠且最大的錯誤............................................................

吳婷婷 said...

從來名利地,皆起是非心。.......................................................

黃威宇 said...

有空我一定會常來逛你的部落格!!!! ..................................................................

林彥以林彥以 said...

每日都有新日光,每日都有新希望。..................................................

琬安琬安 said...

實在是太完美了!非常感谢!给心心!(〃ω〃)............................................................

紹函紹函 said...

Look before you leap.................................................

嘉王偉 said...

愛,拆開來是心和受兩個字。用心去接受對方的一切,用心去愛對方的所有。......................................................................

家唐銘 said...

Necessity is the mother of invention..................................................................

家唐銘 said...

Man proposes, God disposes..................................................................

凱v胡倫 said...

時間就是塑造生命的材料。

張忠張鴻水玉 said...

時時關心,時時感動。..................................................

梁名劉明倫裕 said...

文章雖然普通,但意義卻很大~~^^~~ ..................................................

江仁趙雲虹昆 said...

幸福不是一切,人還有責任。............................................................

士文婷文婷松 said...

很精彩的部落格 期待你的繼續加油..................................................

惠邱邱邱邱雯 said...

你怎麼能經過一片海,而忘記它的藍?......................................................................

SadeRa盈君iford0412 said...

我來湊熱鬧的~~^^ 要平安快樂哦..................................................

祁聿雨 said...

善言能贏得聽眾,善聽才能贏得朋友。......................................................................

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